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angryhampster

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what are hints that she dont love you no more..

 

how can you tell if she digs you, or she needs a COOLDOWN period.

 

what are the things you look for, if you think she's after you for revenge?  to get you really jealous?  what are the signs for it.

 

or maybe she's under some deppression.  any advice that is originally yours would help... anything from ripoff google, i discard.



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If you love her don't let her go. Better to pour your heart out even if it gets crushed. Best case she stays. Worst you lose her but you know that you did your best. Been there man. Good luck. 


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The first thing you need to keep in mind is that sometimes there are no-win situations in life, and these can occur quite often in relationships. However, losing is only temporary. Whether that means you think sustaining a relationship will eventually override the suckiness of the present, or that in no longer sustaining that relationship you'll wind up with a net win after the suckiness goes away, the suckiness is temporary.

 

Just because it's temporary doesn't mean it doesn't suck. It does.

 

So you have a few variables to play with now. To reflect the seriousness of this situation, we'll use the renowned font, Comic Sans.

 

 

 

e=effect of suckiness

s=duration of suckiness

t=runtime of equation

z=time-happiness modifier

h=happiness

x=suck length-intensity modifier

 

Of course we're assuming your end goal is some sort of happiness. Later we can factor in se=effort to overcome suck which will impact happiness one way or another, but for now we'll keep it simple - and by simple I mean not actually backed by any sort of math whatsoever and we're just going to pull a function out of fuzzy bunnyspace. Also, by simple, I mean happy, and by that I mean happiness is often best represented as a negative value.

 

So on one side of the equation we have h, glorious happiness. On the other side we're going to have tzxs, and e. We need time because in order to determine what sucks less, we need to establish a boundary of relevance. Beyond some point, we're just trying to predict the future, and underneath some other point it won't even matter because you're right in the middle of the no-win scenario. We need z because if your goal is a positive (negative) h value, we need to assume that at some point a positive h value will exist and it'll only happen over a period of time, and more importantly because we need to get the units right. Got it? Good. We need s and e because at some multiplicative value they are going to be what differentiates the h value of whatever situation you intend to go with. And finally we need x to get the units right.

 

So, throwing these together we get:

 

happiness=negative([time] times [the time-happiness modifier which is based on the assumption that a happiness value exists is possible and only valid given some period of time]) minus ([the length of period of suck] times [the intensity of the suck] times [a constant that allows addition to work between units of suck and units of happiness]).

 

Or:

 

h=-(z*t)-(x*s*e)

 

(functional reasoning of z and x: we're doing math between variables whose units are unknown. On one side we have "happiness" so whatever units we express that in needs to be the end result of the other side as well, or else they're not actually equal. The same reasoning applies to tz-se, where we need them to be in the same units or else we won't actually be subtracting anything. Therefore h units can also be expressed in tz units, or se units. and x are constants in the equation and do not change.

 

You may notice then, that when applied to a situation, the only things that change based on the situation are s and e. You could also make the argument that z needs to vary from situation to situation, because they are long term and will effect your value as well. Instead of complicating things further (to me, since I'm making this up as I go) we're going to add another constant so that z can be an independent variable. We'll call it outlook since that's what most impacts how time effects happiness, so lk for short. To provide the constant that we're extracting from z we'll take the letter a.

Thus:

 

h=happiness

 

t=runtime

lk=time-happiness variable, outlook, or the other side of z when we take out a

s=length of suckiness

e=effect of suckiness

 

a=constant to ensure h units

x=constant to ensure h units

 

h=-((a*t*k)-(x*s*e)

 

 

Or perhaps more appropriately, h=-((t*a*lk)-(s*e*x)), which when we account for the double negative, becomes h=(-t*a*lk)+(s*e*x) or more conveniently h=(s*e*x) minus (t*a*lk).

 

 

In application, we're going to consider two scenarios:

1. you break up with your significant hamster

2. you keep it together (assuming that the time kept together is longer than t)

 

 

Net happiness of 1. is going to be how hard and how long the break up will suck subtracted from the product of how you recover over time and the amount of time elapsed. t can be increased until you're uncertain how time will affect your happiness related to this subject. Basically an increase in time will always result in a positive h value after a certain point. However for the purposes of this problem, since we are comparing the values of one scenario versus another, t must remain constant between the two, and therefore can be no larger than the length of scenario 2 if we're going to get anything meaningful out of this.

 

Net happiness of 2. is going to be how hard and how long the sucky period of working things out subtracted from the product of how things continue and the time it continues.

 

So, consider the variables. Both are going to suck. Establish how long you think they'll suck for and how hard they'll suck versus your best guess at the remaining time in the equation and how happy you think you'll be for that time. See?  Simple.

 

Also, aside from establishing a formula, which was marginally hypothetical, establishing the variables is total guesswork.

 

What does any good Hawken player do when they're up against something that looks like pure guesswork?

 

They learn from it.

 

That's all.


Edited by ticklemyiguana, 13 January 2016 - 03:32 AM.

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To get answers you will need to find the Clitoris.

Edit: just try to get over it and forget about her. If you need to process these kind of questions, it's far far more likely she's not the one. There's plenty of fish in the sea, as people say. Focus on only yourself.

Edited by (KDR) Kopra, 13 January 2016 - 02:26 AM.

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I`m by far not the most experienced with relationships (veteran loner here), but I think that if you actually gotta ask yourself those questions and don`t feel she will answer them, the relationship is unhealthy. Try to sort out the relationship first, cooperating with her, and if it doesn`t work you at least tried, which is a lot better than what many does and have done. Either it works and you have solved the problem, or it doesn`t work. However an unhealthy relationship is a lot worse than being single, that I know for sure. 

 

Please take what I say with a grain of salt though, while I haven`t been together with anyone so to speak, I think that what I say isn`t a `bad` way to approach it. Good luck man, hope it sorts out for you in the long run.


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"It’s like I'm in this dirt, digging up old hurt

Tried everything to get my mind off you, it won’t work
All it takes is one song on the radio you’re right back on it
Reminding me all over again how you fuzzy bunnyng just brushed me off
And left me so burnt, spent a lot of time trying to soul search
Maybe I needed to grow up a little first
Well, looks like I hit a growth spurt
But I am coming for closure
Don’t suppose an explanation I’m owed for
The way that you turned your back on me
Just when I may have needed you most
Oh, you thought it was over
You could just close the chapter
And go about your life, like it was nothing
You ruined mine, but you seem to be doing fine
Well, I’ve never recovered but tonight I betcha that whatcha
'bout to go through’s tougher than anything I ever have suffered
Can’t think of a better way to define poetic justice
Can I hold grudges, mind saying: "let it go, fuzzy bunny this"
Heart's saying: "I will once I bury this fuzzy bunny alive

Hide the shovel and then drive off in the sunset" - Bad guy / Eminem

 

Sing her that ...


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t0


Edited by angryhampster, 16 January 2016 - 02:57 PM.


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the rap was very helpful


Edited by angryhampster, 16 January 2016 - 02:57 PM.


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Crawl into a bottle and don't come out until Hawken is dead and these forums are down.

 

Or go back on your meds, chrissakes.


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Edited by angryhampster, 16 January 2016 - 02:57 PM.


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its nice to think that some people think im psychotic and on medications, but im on nothing... 


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its nice to think that some people think im psychotic and on medications, but im on nothing...

Maybe there's the problem.
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Psychotic or not. Hawken forums or/and internet are not really an appropiate place to pour your heart to. You may want to think about speaking to someone who can comfort you, hug you and can read and answer your emotions. A good friend, maybe?


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