49 replies to this topic

[Wargasim]

Good luck mate, but remember to play it cool. Don't go in there like a love sick puppy - thats the fastest way to blow things.

Also don't be 'too nice' You don't want to fall into the 'you so nice I don't want a relationship to mess with our friendship' nonsense.

Having said that walking up to her with your nob in your hand is not a good move either.

Its all about finding the middle ground!

[N0stalgia]

Dude. That. Avatar.

[OdinTheWise]

Just wip out your fuzzy bunny, fuzzy bunny love that....

Lol jk. What I would avoid complimenting on hair or cloths or shoes ect. It can be taken as kinda fuzzy bunny.

Don't be afraid to ask, the worst that can happen is that she will say no

[angryhampster]

hit, tap and run style...

go in smooth, hit her arm lightly,  tap her on the shoulder, talk to her, then run..

[H0L0GRAM]

Yes, talk to her.. - but that's hard, right_
Mention to her that you have a real problem.... the problem is that yo are really shy.
At that point, it won't matter how shy you are, because it will 'fit' the conversation.
Also, girls usually think that's cute, especially if you happen to blush. - and don't be surprised if she blushes, lol.
She will likely try to give you some advice about it, which will accent the whole purpose and your conversation with her, etc.

If you do this, and she is still there talking to you, you will notice that the horrible shy thing has subsided.
Let her know that you don't like how a lot of guys act towards girls, give an example or two.
This is something important to girls in general, and on top of that, shows that you care and are probably a nice guy, accented by your being shy, etc.

Then, - and this is important, no matter what, if you get anywhere with this girl at all watch yourself, and be considerate - now think about that word and what it means and be real about it.  Then, you never, ever, ever act selfish or like a jerk - or I'll come through that display and kick your butt!

Here's where it gets harder, but also gets better for you in the long run...
If things don;t work out, act like a gentleman, no rude remarks, no bad talk about her, even if she deserves it.
In fact, there is a small chance that any girl, despite their apparent wonderfulness might turn out to be someone you really don;t like anymore for good reason. In that case, you STILL act like a gentleman, and you still don't say cruel things or make crude remarks or call her names, even among your closest friends.  Girls know these things. Girls talk. Girls know which guys are jerks and which guys are nice, and in the long run other girls will be receptive to you or even come talk to you all on their own.  You will have a reputation as not just one of the nicer guys, but someone really special, someone who can be trusted, and any girl who does;t treat you right will likely get a reputation for being that way with that guy.

This way of doing things will help you in the here and now, and will also make life better and easier for the rest of your life.
It will be hard at times, seem unfair at times, but will make you a better guy than most, and get you some of the nicest and prettiest girls.

I dare you to try it!

[ropefish]

im still a larva cant think bout it (must become moth and or butterfly V~V)

Spoiler

i know its hard to ask the person so try a letter or just start out as
friends also the girls friend has the "final" aproval
GL

[H0L0GRAM]

ropefish, on September 15 2013 - 08:54 AM, said:

im still a larva cant think bout it (must become moth and or butterfly V~V)

Spoiler

i know its hard to ask the person so try a letter or just start out as
friends also the girls friend has the "final" aproval
GL

Cute, but you're an advanced member, sprout already, LTM. That or you could just become a larger, vicious caterpiller or whatever, LTM

- P.S.- I like your signature pic !

Edited by H0L0GRAM, September 15 2013 - 06:40 PM.

[nokari]

[EnergyFlameD]

GIRLS....

Likes confident guys.

don't be shy and moody be HAPPY!

I don't want to tell more because every body have posted very good ideas.

Like Mr.Uknown said: We Pilots Got Your Back!

[EnergyFlameD]

nokari, on September 15 2013 - 06:48 PM, said:

Don't creep Girls....

Thats just very uncomfortable and weird... Don't do THAT!

Sorry Nokari..

I just warned him...


Don't d the Creep

Edited by EnergyFlameD, September 18 2013 - 09:43 AM.

[angryhampster]

i use the rule of 100...

ask of 100 girls, and expect to get  5 girls, or at least 1.


this can't be online.. this has to be in public, or somewhere you see and talk to her.


if you fail by the 100th time.   then you can tell me that i'm wrong.  and i'll punch myself in the head.

this applies for a certain rules..

rule 1:  be at 20% or less body fat

rule 2: clean cut, good hygiene.  

rule 3:  wear clothes

rule 4:   back straight, chin up.

Edited by angryhampster, September 18 2013 - 09:54 AM.

[nokari]

EnergyFlameD, on September 18 2013 - 09:40 AM, said:

nokari, on September 15 2013 - 06:48 PM, said:

Don't creep Girls....

Thats just very uncomfortable and weird... Don't do THAT!

Sorry Nokari..

I just warned him...


Don't d the Creep

lol you thought that was serious_

[Riflebird]

There's been a ton of good advice already tossed into this topic, but here's my 2 cents:

1) Be confident. Girls love self-assured guys. Just don't go overboard and come off as an arrogant jerk. Moderation is key here.
2) Be funny. Quickest way to a girl's heart is through her funny bone. Sounds painful, but it's true.
3) Be yourself. This is perhaps most important. Many people will tell you this, and for a reason: it's RIGHT. Don't try to act like someone you're not. Be honest with both her and yourself. This is the best way to see if you are both compatible, and putting on a facade won't help matters.

Also, an important thing to do before asking the girl out: make sure you don't have bad breath. This is extremely important. I can't tell you how awful it can be to be asked out by a guy whose breath was so foul it made me want to pass out. It will not matter if you're cute or funny, and you can have all the confidence in the world, but if your breath reeks then it's over right there. So take along a breathmint or a small bottle of mouthwash before you ask her out.

Good luck!

[kingalbert2]

believe me i wish i knew. i am however not really th guy that should give advice on this

[Dreadess]

I think I might be the first girl to respond to this post...

That being said, I will say what works best. Many of these things have been said before by multiple others.

1. Its true: being the nice guy is the right way. Girls who like "bad boys" are not going to be the type of girl you want to be around anyways.

2. Confidence IS THE KEY! But like someone else said, don't be cocky. Arrogance is the biggest turn-off.

3. Be upfront with your feelings/interests. Not bringing them up soon enough may confuse her into thinking you only want to be friends.

4. Find out what her interests are. If you do get a date, try and do something along those lines.

5. Yea being funny is great, but only if you're naturally funny. Try too hard and you'll just turn her off. Its better to just be yourself.

[Dreadess]

Oh yea..Nokari you're too funny! I <3 U

[Un3thical]

[Preternatural]

Un3thical, on September 18 2013 - 03:50 PM, said:

PLAYAAAAA!!

[Skrill]

Wow I will be honest. when i clicked this thread i was expecting some A+ trolling but because this community is the fuzzy bunny there is some actual advice on here.

1. Confidence is key.
2. be clear with your intentions
3. Hygiene is key. take care of yourself
4. Get a fuzzy bunny best friend. seriously, a fuzzy bunny man is a strait mans best friend when it comes to women. I would not be dating the girl of my dreams without my brother Chadd

[SilentJacket]

so you'll need about 3 gallons of epoxy glue, 6 sticks of butter, a Lamborghini covered in scotch tape, and a pigmy goat...


but seriously, just ask her