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[Lithonia]

Quick description :
I'm very shy to the girls that I like, I haven't really talked to her yet, not even friends. Although I'm very talkative and very loud, I still yet shy. I really want to be friends with her at least, but if possible ask her out. I searched on google but they didn't really help. So could anyone help me on here_ Thanks.

[Dedjal]

... Just talk to her.
No, seriously. Just talk to her.
It is as simple as "hey, I was wondering if you would like to go and have lunch/dinner and/or go to a movie sometime_"

Aunt edit: You are the one stopping yourself. There is a saying "the only thing to fear is fear itself".
You are making yourself scared by your own imagination.
What is there to be scared off_ She could say no_ Well, if she does, you are exactly where you were before you asked. Nothing lost in the transaction. She would not have gone out with you regardless of what you could have done. And vica versa.

Edited by Dedjal, September 10 2013 - 01:58 PM.

[Lithonia]

Dedjal, on September 10 2013 - 01:52 PM, said:

... Just talk to her.
No, seriously. Just talk to her.
It is as simple as "hey, I was wondering if you would like to go and have lunch/dinner and/or go to a movie sometime_"

Ahh, yes, but you see my dad doesn't really let me go out, so most of the time i'm at home, playing Hawken...

[M30W]

I don't understand.

Who need intimacy when you have hawken - or us_

[nokari]

M30W, on September 10 2013 - 02:05 PM, said:

I don't understand.

Who need intimacy when you have hawken - or us_

[diablodevil2]

Middle click locks on.

[N0stalgia]

Simple. Buy some flowers. Man up, walk over, give them to her and tell her you think shes pretty and that you want to call her later, but you'll need her phone number.

If she doesn't give it to you under those circumstances, shes a b*tch and not worth your time.

[Lithonia]

Okay, I guess I'll try tomorrow, I'm going to say "Hey, your hair is very beautiful." if that's good enough.

[Preternatural]

The most important thing is being yourself. As a guy who has been a class clown since ever, this was pretty simple for me, but it might be hard for you. I have no idea what age you are, but don't let it crush you if she doesn't like you back, because that might be the case.   I believe that's the reason for the term "crush."

Tips:
1.Girls love funny guys, but don't be a try-hard.
2.People say nice guys finish last, but it's not true; be nice to her. Most girls don't usually date douches. However, be sure to crack an occasional joke at her if she is good-humored.
3.I say be nice to her, but also be nice to her friends. If you are a fuzzy bunny to her friends, that message will obviously get passed down the line to her.
4.Drop an occasional hint that you like her. If she likes you even a tad, these will get to her and 1.) she will either start flirting with you or 2.) tell you to leave her alone. This is probably the riskiest tip I'll give you, but it works.
5.DANCE. Some of my relationships have come from being on the dancefloor at school dances. This tip leads to...
6. DON'T (UNDER ANY CIRCUSTANCES) BE SHY. I know, it's tough, but get out there. Talk to her, for God's sake! Sit with her at lunch! Do something that will put you on her radar.

That is the best advice I can give you, my friend. Good luck to you, and may you find yourself a good girl.

[Preternatural]

Lithonia, on September 10 2013 - 02:32 PM, said:

Okay, I guess I'll try tomorrow, I'm going to say "Hey, your hair is very beautiful." if that's good enough.

Don't say it too desperately. Do it in a hallway, and just walk by her, say it casually and keep walking. But yeah, that's a very good start.

[Preternatural]

People who say "gamers are losers" are full of fuzzy bunny.

US PILOTS GOT YOUR BACK, BRO.

[DDwarrior]

M30W, on September 10 2013 - 02:05 PM, said:

I don't understand.

Who need intimacy when you have hawken - or us_

  Because you know, girls are pretty.

[Phaaze]

walk up, gurgle like an idiot then collapse....

works every time

Edited by Phaaze, September 10 2013 - 02:49 PM.

[HKN_player]

give her a present





works every time ...

Edited by HKN_player, September 10 2013 - 03:01 PM.

[Nept]

This article made me chuckle.

[Lithonia]

Mr_UnKNoWn, on September 10 2013 - 02:43 PM, said:

People who say "gamers are losers" are full of fuzzy bunny.

US PILOTS GOT YOUR BACK, BRO.

Thanks!

[angryhampster]

if chicks like you, they'll give you a few hints.  

i was just like you.

2 ways to go about it..

1. ask her out and tell her you like her, and if she rejects, you will know the truth and move on.

2. or do things that makes her so madly deeply in love with you that she will ask you out herself..


most of my ex girlfriends were my girlfriends because they asked me out, and i'm the one who dumped them all later on.  =(   i had low self esteem, so i felt bad for saying NO.   this was all in high school when hormones are all raging.

if u like her very much, ask her out or hang out with her.  aand whenit gets comfortable, ask her out, treat her well, and love her for the rest of ur life if she's dha one.

[angryhampster]

M30W, on September 10 2013 - 02:05 PM, said:

I don't understand.

Who need intimacy when you have hawken - or us_

definitely bro.  come here, let me show you how to pleasure a man...

hawken, beer, clubs, bars, and more hawken.

[Lithonia]

Thank you all, hopefully it'll work. Will post when I get home from school.

[Lithonia]

Okay, so all I didn't really said it at all, she walked too fast and I couldn't catch up before the end of the period. I knew one of her friends who was my friend and so I asked him if a had a chance. He said I might have a chance with her since I'm a really nice guy. And hopefully I'll try again tomorrow!

Edited by Lithonia, September 11 2013 - 12:39 PM.