ZeForte, on November 28 2012 - 09:39 AM, said:
I remember that the match "was basically over", and I just assumed there was rage quitting involved.
For what it's worth, I don't think I left voluntarily (why would I_ We were winning).
Alright, that wasn't very fair. I apologize for trying to paint you in a bad way.
However, I'm still convinced any broad negative statements about one's team are completely unproductive/borderline demoralizing and only serve as excuses.
I'm not sure of why you left, just that you did. (For what it's worth, at the time I wondered why the heck you'd leave myself, my best guess being you were disgusted with my answer of it being down to the mercy of the pubs.)
And yes, for the most part I do agree. I kind of draw a line between "My team sucks ass" and "My team isn't attacking," though. But in the end, I suppose one could say that both are the same thing, it's just a matter of degree.
But I guess the mature thing to do in the end is to likewise apologize for my own words, though understandably, the people who are trying their hardest generally don't like being told "cry some more" by the guys underneath them... even though ironically I saw the situation from the other side of the fence the other day and it reminded me of how dumb and petty it is. (Though unlike me, that guy out and out said his team sucked, which I view as way worse.)
I chalk it up to just being human. Sometimes it happens; it's a stupid game so don't try to take it so seriously, but losses like that are always somewhat harder to swallow, especially when it looked like your team was clicking and then suddenly... it vanishes, except for one other guy. The key is to keep it as minimal as possible - and to at least be objective about it if, for some reason, you must gripe.
After all, I can't say I didn't try, but 7-7 is horrible for me; I'm a player who tends to pull higher K/D in most matches. It's frustrating to give your all and not have much support, but I have to keep in mind that not everyone has been playing this, or FPSes, for as long as I have, nor do all of them have as much skill in them as I do.